Exact Instructions
Empathy is one of the #FiveIndicatorsofLove - its foundation is in truly understanding that people have a completely different paradigm than you do. There are moments - particularly when you're actively leading people - be it your colleagues, customers, investors, team, audience or others from Point A to Point B - where it's especially important to take on what some call the "beginner's mind" - the ability to step outside your expertise and see your message through the eyes of someone encountering it for the first time.
Love is a Higher Law
Love is a higher law.
‘Love as a KPI' posits that businesses should be driven primarily by love for people. If love for people is the foremost thing, everything else will yield to it.
Great leaders care first about people. Ideally, prevailing standards, systems and rules support this priority, but even when they fall short, true leadership stays anchored to its deepest intention.
It may be Simple, but it ain't Easy
What does it mean to genuinely be a Love-led leader?
Some of the most common and insidious misconceptions about this thing called Love, include that it is a sentiment, and one solely denoted by warmth and fuzziness. That it always is earmarked by a good feeling. That it’s the ‘easy’ or ‘frivolous’ or ‘soft’ thing - and the inherent deduction, is that it has little to no place in business or organizational conversations as it is too stark a contrast from hard, important physical or intellectual work.
It’s one of several reasons why this notion of Love as a KPI may seem so striking.
Proximity.
‘For someone on top of the world, the view is not exactly clear…’
Leadership is naturally where Love as a KPI starts (and where it ends). We as leaders should measure how loved people are as a consequence of an enterprise’s culture, actions, products, services, experiences, practiced values, operations etc
Do people experience being more valued, uniquely appreciated, validated, propelled into their purpose and potential, and called higher as a result of their interaction with a business?
You Get What You Give
The tenets required to build meaningful, enduring relationships in our personal lives (with friends, mentors, family members et al.) are the the very same tenets required to build enduring relationships with employees, customers and other stakeholders in business.
Love is the outcome of the perspective, posture and practice that prioritizes the true needs and betterment of another. Tt warrants a pivot that starts with a perspective shift, where we look at each goal or initiative from the lens: 'how can our strategy, goals or initiatives be a conduit to leaving the people impacted by it holistically better': be it developmentally mentally, financially, physically, ethically or otherwise.
The Missing Connection
There is often a missed connection between how we see people and the outcomes we want in business. Two things are of significant consequence to nearly all outcomes in life and particularly business - how people see and treat other people, and how people see and treat themselves. How we 'see' another (also colored by how we see ourselves) spills over to how we treat one another.
What's Love Got to Do with it?
When organizations are driven by Love for people - regardless of if those people are termed ‘customers’ or ‘employees’ (or 'suppliers'... or 'community members'... or any category we place the humans that comprise the ecosystem of every organization in) - it exponentially drives the financial, operational and strategic success of a business